via Daily Prompt: Elegant
Everyone isn’t born with elegance, everyone isn’t taught elegance. Timeless and pure are the thoughts that enter my mind, while hearing the word elegant. Elegance is not something you put on and take off. It is not like a light switch where you turn it off and on. To be elegance is to embrace the luxury of life, to it’s fullest. Enjoying the finer things in life. Living an elegant life is enjoying the beauty of life experiences gracefully. Not being hood, ghetto, or trailer- park trash is a start. Let’s be honest, most people feel as if elegance is in the clothes you wear. Truth is it is how you carrier your self. Can you be elegantly petty? Sure you can, without acting as if you have a 3rd- grade education. Just because your mate cheated, doesn’t give you the right to cheat, that’s petty. It doesn’t give you the right to search through phones or destroy property. It gives you the power to know your worth, and leave the relationship. The elegant way to handle the situation is by going onto be successful, grand, and awesome without that person. You can make the choice to be clever and classy. You don’t have to be fragile to elegant, but classic and uncompressed.
A woman can walk in elegance, she can be sophisticated, fashionable, and artistic. In a relationship, you are not responsible for making your woman fell this way. You are to show her that she is the vision of elegance. You can show her through the way you treat her. Prove to her she is not ordinary, but special. You can reveal to her as a reminder that she is elegant by being creative in the romance department. As you show her that you are mindful of her elegance she will carry herself with more grace and poise.
Respecting your relationship enough not to cheat, is a form of elegance. Being elegant will yield respect. Understanding that your relationship with your spouse is exquisite and cultivated will demand respect even when you all are not on the same page. That demanded respect will cause you to have appropriate actions, when you are placed in inappropriate positions. Remember you can make your relationship elegant. So I ask a question, what are you showing your mate?